Goal Digger

{Sweat shirt c/o Bow and Drape, Ray-Ban aviators, One Teaspoon shorts, Balenciaga handbag, Golden Goose sneakers (on sale!)}

Ehr-Ma-Gawd. Don’t you just die for this Bow & Drape sweat shirt? Obviously YES. It has “Girl Boss” written all over it — in shimmery gold sequins no less.

You know, if there’s one thing I’ve learned at age 38, it’s to be a goal digger and not a gold digger. I’ve seen so many young girls and cougars my age get wrapped up chasing the bling and it never ever ends pretty. Honestly, any woman/man whose primary interest in a relationship is material benefits is LAME-O. Peeps with a proclivity for sugar daddies reek of shallowness. And other ratchet stuff.

But when you dig for goals, well, the good stuff comes in leaps and bounds. #Believe.

*More deets on that bad-ass sweatshirt above: Now through Dec 24th you can design your own Bow & Drape sweatshirt (and more) at the Boca Raton Nordstrom and leave with it same day. And in addition to sweatshirts, you can customize pouches, pillows, mugs, holiday present sacks and even custom Huy Foy Sriracha bottles — just perfect for the holidays!